Definition -What is Domestic Abuse >>
Current legislation and definition confirms that Domestic abuse occurs between adults aged 18 or over.
Lincolnshire Police recognises that domestic abuse does not commence on a person’s 18th birthday and that young people are subjected to abuse by intimate / ex intimate partners before this age.
Lincolnshire Police agrees that:
- Abuse in relationships is not normal or acceptable – if you are in an abusive relationship it’s not your fault and you do not have to stand for it
- It’s not just physical violence, like punching or kicking, that makes a relationship abusive – if you are threatened with violence, have no say over what you wear or who you see or speak to, or are constantly criticised it is sill abuse
- Abuse is never OK – blaming abuse on anger, jealousy, alcohol or the other person’s behaviour is not acceptable
- Help is available – if you need some support getting out of an abusive relationship or just want to talk to someone visit http://thisisabuse.direct.gov.uk/
The Home Office This Is Abuse website has key information on the following:
- How to recognise abuse?
- Have your say – an online message board which allows you to say what you think about abuse in relationships
- What are the signs?
- How to stop yourself – how to recognise and get help for those who feel they may be perpetrating abuse
- Frequently asked questions
- Where can I get help?
You can also access local information on our website - see the Support Services information page >>